I was also really excited that I was able to make our sex life even better. He regretted not telling me sooner because he could have been having years of great sex with me. Woman A: Mainly him just smelling them and licking them. Woman B: Generally, foot fetishists want to kiss, lick, and suck on feet.
Sometimes they prefer the feet to be kind of sweaty … Usually when my partner comes over, I have him give me a foot massage while we chitchat before the sex. I usually make him jerk off on them at the end and lick it up, or I use my feet to rub the cum all over his face. Woman C: He is into anything I can think of that involves my feet.
Sometimes I get cheeky and arouse him in public, which I feel slightly bad for, but it always means getting some really insistent and hot sex later on in private. And sometimes we just have regular vanilla or not-so-vanilla sex not involving my feet. Positions where my feet are in his face are the best, because I get off on getting him off.
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Woman A: I have a couple of times. You need to be in a really awkward position and it makes my bum and thighs cramp a bit. Woman B: I think I gave my partner a foot job to completion exactly once … I just shoved my feet together and made him do most of the work.
Woman C: Foot jobs are always a winner, but they are pretty difficult because it involves moving almost all of your legs to get the right movements going and then you have to maintain it and then get faster. Tiring stuff. Also looks really stupid from my perspective. But it works. Woman A: Not really. I should probably get on that. Those Babyfoot [exfoliator] things are cool though.
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Last time I did one, I fed the dead skin to, like, three different clients. I exfoliate and moisturise everywhere, including my feet. Sometimes I make a point of painting them in front of him — he likes that. According to people on the internet, everyone with a foot fetish is a pervert who wants to involve you in their fetish without your consent and is easy to spot.
Foot Fetish? Here's What Sex Is Like. Hayley MacMillen. It was putting a major strain on our relationship and I could never figure it out. It was an everyday battle and I almost couldn't handle it anymore. It gave me anxiety and depression. But there is no strain now. He's got it off his chest. Our relationship can be beautiful now. Except for the obvious elephant in the room I do not know how to tame. Yes I know it is extremely weird and can be off putting but there is no manual on how to deal with something this loony. I obviously don't know how to handle the situation at all.
I still love him and want to help him but the problem is my comfortability with the situation. It's not up my ally at all irony and it makes me feel horrible because I want my boyfriend to be satisfied sexually and I don't know if ill ever be able to do that and I know that does not lead to a healthy relationship.
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I don't know how to explain this to him and I want him to be satisfied more than anything I just don't know what to do. Location: Newport Beach, California. Originally Posted by Jbdean. Right, it is not going to change, especially as he doesn't see it as a problem.
This is not as uncommon as you would think, I saw segments about others who share that fetish on DiscoveryHealth. One of the guys even built his own giant crib. Recently I went online to look for something sold for adults to chew on to help me quit smoking, and ended up instead finding lots and lots of fetish sites selling adult pacifiers, diapers, etc, so I guess there are quite a few people who share this.
I do not blame you for not wanting to participate, it would turn me off big time as I want a man who wants to be a MAN, and I am so sorry you are going through this. If you want to google it, the fetish is called 'adult baby'. One thing to consider is how perfect he seems to be, despite his traumatic childhood. I can pretty well guarantee you that either the 'perfect' is an act, a very convincing one, or the childhood is a lie. Either the perfect facade will crack, and you will find out that he has other huge issues, much more problematic than the adult baby stuff, or he has made up the story about his childhood in order to get you to accept the fetish and the meth use.
Personally, I would not continue with this guy. But if you want to do so, just be aware that there are going to be more big revelations in the future; this is not the end. And he is saving the worst for last. What I think is most likely here is that he is bipolar, and has made up the childhood story as an explanation for his fetish, and to prep you for the bipolar revelation sometime down the road. Meth addiction may or may not be an issue as well. I'd bet he is in a hypomanic phase, which would explain why he seems so perfect.
People in that phase will often answer honestly if you ask them if they're bipolar. They might hedge, saying, 'some people call me that' or the like, but take that as a yes. Take any dodging of the question as a yes, and tell him you are doing so. That might help him to be honest, too.
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He might use meth as self-medication, or he might not use it at all and just pretend he does to explain his manic episodes. Anyway, this is all conjecture, but I think it's a reasonable possibility. Location: The 1 sunshine state, Arizona. Whenever I have a fetish question, I quickly consult a website that mostly deals with relocating to a different city, thank you city-data. Do you change his diaper and put lots of cream on his bottom so he doesn't get diaper rash? Because that's important you know. Kin Atoms. To the OP: just let him know, this isn't flying anymore.
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This is a deal-breaker for me. Who said you're committed? Who said until death do you part? This is a chance he took - such is the way of intimacy.
You can't re-write his sexual script and even though he showed this to you with hopes, YOU can't re-write your sexual script. Just explain it like that and walk away. Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick.
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